Getting to go to a concert to see your favorite artist or even getting to meet them backstage seems like the perfect moment for a life changing question to be asked…but Brantley Gilbert says, guys may want to rethink that opportunity.

Lots of men use those fun nights out at shows to propose to the one they love…and Brantley, like all artists, has seen proposals that went as planned…and he’s also seen plenty that have gone off the rails.

So, Brantley has some advice for his fans, and guys in general, if they’re thinking of using a concert as the backdrop to drop down on one knee and pop the question.